Do you realize that just because something is popular with others does not necessarily mean that it will have value for you? Why? You are a unique person with a special perspective on life.
Understand that by all means enjoy fellowship and cooperation with others, yet always do so being who you are. Why? This can be your opportunity to stand out and not be lost in the crowd.
Beginning today, when your instincts tell you something is not right for you, even though it is popular, listen to those instincts. Let them be your reason to advance quickly ahead of the crowd.