Do you realize every time you blame others for your problems, you are giving them control over your life? It’s certainly not what you want to do. Why? It gets you nothing of value.
Even though your current situation may be largely someone else’s fault, it is still your responsibility. The more responsibility you accept, the better your life will and can be.
Beginning today step up and take responsibility, no matter what, as often and as enthusiastically as you can. Why? It is the only path you must take if you want control over your life.