Do you realize you have a choice in how you confront the setbacks in your life? You can choose to let them pull you down. Or you can choose to let them provide you with a positive way forward.
Understand those circumstances you face are not stacked against you unless you imagine them to be. Rather than blaming life for how it goes, adapt and respond positively to what happens.
Beginning today instead of accepting that your life is working against you, begin to look for the ways you can work along with life. Why? You will discover more of your life that will go your way.