Do you realize few things in your life are so overwhelmingly positive or so completely negative as to not need any judgment on your part? All the other things, though, will depend on how you see them.
Understand, if you see something as a curse it will be a curse. If you see it as a blessing it will indeed be a blessing for you. Yet, the more things you consider to be a reason for joy, the more joyful you are.
Beginning today begin to find delight in the little things by being aggressively and proactively positive. Why? You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how delightful those big things turn out to be in your life, also.