Do you realize that who you are is not the person that others see? Though you may try to hide who you are, it will surely come out in ways you may not want it to.
Understand that if you wish to change what you appear to be, choose carefully what has priority in your heart, for it is what can shape the person others see.
Beginning today, build a solid, positive, and fulfilling person within you, and all that you know will faithfully resonate with that person you want to share outward.