Do you realize you can choose to refuse to take the difficulties in your life personally? Why? It’s from that vantage point your options to overcome them are vastly increased.
Understand when you can step back, take your own ego out of the picture, and look objectively at the situation, you can craft and execute a much more effective response.
Beginning today although it can be terribly painful and extremely unfair. Embrace your strongest, most positive, and the effective response comes by not taking it personally.