Do you realize whether your situation is wonderful or whether it is dismal, focus on what you can actually do with it? Focus on where your efforts will make the difference for you.
Don’t let the details of what has already happened cause you to lose sight of the efforts necessary to move forward. Direct your attention to what you are able to do right now.
Beginning today it is amazing what a little effort will do. Your effort is far more effective than worrying, far more effective than complaining that things aren’t going your way.