Do you realize that to get the most from this moment, you should welcome it? Though it probably is not exactly as you wanted, welcome it just the same. Why? It will put you in the best position to move forward in life.
Understand that whatever has happened has happened. Whatever the circumstances may be, they are what you now have to work with. How? Welcome to each moment, experience, and thought as they come to you.
Beginning today, do not waste your time and energy fighting against what is already real in your life. Instead, begin to put all that time and energy to positive use by creating something even better in a life that is yours.