Do you realize you cannot directly control everything, but there is no need for that anyway? Why? When you control your own thoughts, feelings, and actions, you bring about the life you desire.
Understand when the circumstances of your life are not yet what you desire, there is a reason. What is that reason? It is because you have not yet started to live the life you truly desire to live.
Beginning today in each moment begin to ask. Am I living the life I want to live? To experience that life, become the person who will live it. Why? You will have all that you could ever desire in life.